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A Look into 2 of the Most Puzzling Spiritual Questions of Coronavirus via the Coronavirus Q&A with Rav Itamar Schwartz

1/8/2020

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Note #1: Rav Itamar Schwartz is an Israeli rav who speaks exclusively in Hebrew. All English-language transcriptions are translations by his talmidim.

They do an outstanding job, especially considering the depth & nuance of the material. Nonetheless, exact translations are difficult to achieve, especially from Hebrew to English and especially regarding such deep concepts.

Note #2: Rav Schwartz goes very deep & as a result, anything I discuss here is just the tip of the iceberg. Furthermore, I'm not on the level to discuss his most important ideas, like self-nullification, which he emphasizes as the most significant response we could have to coronavirus.

In other words, it's vital to read the whole PDF because if you just rely on my discussion of it, you'll miss the essentials.

Why are So Many GOOD People Dying — and Davka in America? And What Does that Mean for Us?

In Bilvavi.Corona.Q.and.A.pdf, Rav Itamar Schwartz addresses why COVID-19 has hit our spiritual leaders & other very good people (i.e., respected talmidei chachamim & other people leading Torah-true lives).

​In particular, we see this happening in America more than anywhere else.

Judaism describes the concept of Hashem taking a very good person as a kaparah for the Nation, rather than killing off, say, 1000s of people, chas v'shalom.

And that explains part of it.

But Rav Schwartz delves even deeper into what lies behind the spate of deaths from coronavirus among our spiritual leaders.

It's rattling, yet hopefully also a spur for positive change.

Why Did COVID-19 Hit Davka America So Hard?

On page 24, Rav Schwartz addresses the question: Why America?

​There are many wonderful things to say about the frum community in America.

For example:
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  • Chessed, bikur cholim, & tzedakah occur with great generosity, regularity, and attention to detail.
 
  • The beloved & heroic Hatzolah emergency medical service is an American innovation.
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  • There are frum American Jews who, despite all the temptations of the outside world, invest so much in keeping their Yiddishkeit alive & intact.
 
  • The frum American community fosters many activists who work on behalf of anything troubling Am Yisrael, whether it's shidduchim, abuse, addictions, mental health issues, physical health issues, errant youth, shalom bayis, schools and much more.

However, a vapor of materialism has also infiltrated the community, and affects the community in ways that seem bizarre if you're looking at it from the outside.

Americans who got used to & even enjoy the simpler life in Eretz Yisrael describe a type of culture shock when they return to North America for a visit, expected to adhere to the material dictates inherent to some (though not all) communities there — dictates that honestly do not matter one bit & even cause unnecessary stress & inconvenience.

I don't want to give specific examples, but if you know, then you know. And if you can do something about it (at least within yourself), then you can.

Not everyone is materialistic; as stated above, much good exists.

But according to Rav Schwartz, that infiltration of materialism is a major reason the virus hit America so hard.

Needless to say, secularism & materialism infiltrate Jewish communities around the world (including in Eretz Yisrael). But you see the impact of secularism & materialism in the USA more than anywhere else, so the virus hit there the hardest.

For now, anyway.​

The Elephant in the Room

And there's an aspect hinted at in this blog's previous coronavirus posts, but it certainly hovers at the back of my mind and others have also mentioned:

...a feeling of something "waiting in the wings."

I don't know what you're sensing, but to me, there's a powerful sense that Hashem is holding back — yishtabach Shemo, Av HaRachaman.

Because of that, we're not really seeing the whole picture.

It's blurred because in His Great Mercy, Hashem is not unleashing the full force of it upon us.

Yet on page 26, in answer to the question of why Eretz Yisrael is seeing a much lower rate of complications & death, Rav Schwartz states: 
​You are only viewing the situation at the moment.

​The situation is able to become more encompassing and more complex.

That potential increase in complexity and scope is hinted to in the contradictory & unclear information regarding the virus: 
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  • How far can the virus REALLY travel after being emitted?
 
  • How long does it REALLY stay in the air?
 
  • How accurate are the tests REALLY?
 
  • How infectious is it really? (I personally know people who spent hours in the airspace of, including physically touching, people unknowingly infected with coronavirus...and when tested, these intensely exposed people experienced no symptoms & tested negative for COVID-19. 3 of them had spent a lot of time in the sun, a source of vitamin D, and in addition, one had been supplementing with vitamin D.)
 
  • Can COVID-19 really be transmitted via the eyes?
 
  • Is treating the virus at a hospital more or less dangerous than treating it at home?
 
  • What are the long-term effects, including of those who tested positive but remained asymptomatic?
 
  • Is it really better to allow people to die of loneliness & neglect than risk infecting low-risk family members & staff?
 
  • For those who focus on the purely medical aspect, why are so many people ignoring the 3 studies indicating that vitamin D plays a huge part in coronavirus immunity? And that vitamin K2 not only helps vitamin D absorption, but also prevents clotting (which is how coronavirus has killed many people)? 
 
  • And the really big question: Can you get COVID-19 AGAIN after the initial infection & recovery?

​Whether you have people putting their faith in masks & 6-foot social distancing or claiming that the whole thing is a hoax, there is a tremendous amount that we really don't know.

While the media-induced hysteria looks over-the-top when compared to the actual number of deaths & complications (MUCH less than epidemics like Ebola, Spanish flu, and so on, though a little more than flu deaths & complications, depending on the area), it could derive from this sense that there could be more to the virus, God forbid, then what we see now.

And maybe that's scarier than believing it is controllable via all sorts of questionable precautions or believing that it is a hoax or the flu.

A Glimpse behind the Curtain of Our Upside-Down World:
​Why Davka the Tzaddikim?

Across the board, truly great rabbanim responded to the pandemic by advising us to forgive grudges, disconnect from unnecessary technology & materialistic/secular pursuits, refrain from lashon hara, increase prayer & Torah learning, and so on.

Yet on page 27, we see the question secretly plaguing many of us:

If an Internet connection (especially an impure connection using impure devices) is the spiritual reason behind the pandemic, then why ​are davka the people WITHOUT such devices dying?

The people who DON'T hold grudges, DON'T speak lashon hara, and DO daven copiously with kavanah and DO learn Torah with dedication — why did coronavirus hit davka those people with such high fatalities?

​Rav Schwartz explains that, in part, their illness & deaths resulted from their heightened spiritual sensitivity.

The Wi-Fi connection comprises both a spiritual & physical component. 

Physically, the Wi-Fi penetrates every home and space, even if you don't have Wi-Fi devices in your home.

Sure, if you live in a concrete box with no windows, then that weakens Wi-Fi penetration, but even concrete walls don't block it completely.

As a side point, I think we've all known families who own no devices: not even an old computer for word processing with no Internet whatsoever — not even email.

And they either didn't have cell phones or they had the totally kosher kind with absolutely no Internet connection, not even texting.

Yet their wayward children brought such devices into the home.

Because Wi-Fi penetrates everywhere, you can bring a totally tumah device into a totally Internet-free & device-free home, and use that tumah device in that home.

Surrounded by Wi-Fi, it passes through your home, while outside, it also touches you — even if you yourself never own or even touch a Wi-Fi connection or device.

Spiritually, it penetrates every home & space.

What's the Real Poison Infesting the Wi-Fi?

To extrapolate even more from Rav Schwartz's words: What does all this Wi-Fi contain?

For us, the connection is both instantaneous & imperceptible.

​We see the result, not the process.

But it travels.

For example, to read lashon hara or fake news written in San Francisco, that lashon hara must travel electronically through the air, including space inhabited by holy people.

To look at unwholesome images & watch stupid movies, this garbage must travel through other homes and people in order to arrive to your device.

So all this lashon hara, filth, and frivolousness penetrates the homes & beitei midrash of these holy people.

And because they are so clean & pure, the tumah affects them more.

It's sort of like a population never exposed to certain diseases, so they lack immunity to those diseases.

Yet when suddenly exposed to those diseases, infection & death runs rampant in this formerly healthy population.

Likewise, on a spiritual level.

As Rav Schwartz explains:
We need to understand that our very existence as we live in this generation is infected by the harmful spiritual effects that this invisible radiation [Wi-Fi] has on us, because we are all living within the invisible field of this tumah that fills every space.

​Therefore, there is no one who can be saved from it totally, and therefore it is able to harm anyone, whether they are tzaddikim or whether they are not tzaddikim.

​That is why the souls of tzaddikim are broken and gasping from this tumah.

In addition, there is the unfathomable way Hashem runs the world, which ALSO lies behind the infection & deaths of such great people.

(Meaning, if you focus on the Wi-Fi alone, that's a mistake; it's not the whole reason.)

On page 29, Rav Schwartz recommends reading the Ramchal's Sefer Daat Tevunot to better understand the spiritual dynamic & how to respond.

Uh-Oh...Whoops...

So that's some very bitter food for thought.

Intellectually, we know that when we sin, it harms ourselves (even if we don't immediately perceive it) and it collectively harms our Nation (by adding more sins to the National scales, weighing down on the side of Heavenly Judgement rather than Heavenly Compassion).

But did we know that when we invite a non-Torah wave to our device, it passes through the space of very good & spiritually sensitive people, harming them directly?

Those Wi-Fi waves infested with lashon hara, kefirah, time-wasting, and pritzut infiltrate the personal space of these holy people.

​I never considered that.

How Quarantines Increase Spiritual Contamination

Spiritually speaking, this may be why quarantines ironically bring about an upswing in infection.

Yes, it LOOKS like all the post-quarantine renewed interaction spreads the virus, but people are tested less in quarantine (because they're not going out for tests).

Once people get out more, they also get tested more.

And this means more positives (if the tests are genuinely accurate, of course).

Though some people utilize the lockdowns to improve themselves spiritually, many turn to their Internet devices to relieve boredom & distract themselves from anxiety.

In other words, a person who might normally walk or drive to work (which prevents him from surfing) and then sits at a cash register or goes around fixing electrical issues in homes, or teaches a class (where he also cannot connect to fake news or videos of the best football moments of 2020)...this person in quarantine now spends all that time on the Internet, which increases the spiritually harmful Wi-Fi traffic. 

And wouldn't it be nice if we were all only learning Toras Avigdor or Torah Anytime or Bilvavi via these devices during the quarantines... 

But many people waste time (or worse) on their devices.

​This means that MORE foolishness, MORE pritzut, MORE lashon hara, etc., are traveling via Wi-Fi through homes during a lockdown.

In other words, quarantine increases spiritual contamination via Wi-Fi even as it lessens spiritual contamination in other venues (because people cannot go to bars, discotheques, football games, and movies).

Touching on the Most Effective Responses to Coronavirus

So tachlis, what can we do?

Rav Schwartz mentions several responses, all interconnected:
  • Mesirut nefesh (self-sacrifice)
  • Self-nullification
  • Focus on holy individuality
  • Develop "warm" relationships as opposed to "cold" relationships

This is all in addition to increasing prayer, Torah study, tzedakah, and chessed.

I'll be discussing the above (except self-nullification) in future posts, but please remember that Rav Schwartz emphasizes progressing according to your own level.

But just to touch on some of the solutions:

Regarding mesirut nefesh: What's mesirut nefesh for you might not be mesirut nefesh for someone else.

Think about wherever you're holding. Rav Schwartz recommends to start by taking one thing you find difficult & overcome it.

Even just a small amount of mesirut nefesh regarding one thing makes a huge difference.

One aspect of holy individuality means to focus on learning those parts of Torah closest to your heart. What are you really attracted to learning?

If you're a man, it doesn't mean to give up your learning schedule or yeshivah studies completely, but if you've always felt a hankering to delve into Sefer Yeshayahu or Orchot Tzaddikim or Chessed L'Avraham, then now's the time. 

​As Rav Schwartz advises on page 52 (with a special emphasis on learning in quarantine):
How to actually balance your learning schedule is a matter that differs with each person.

The inner way to go about this period is to receive vitality both from learning in-depth Gemara as well as from learning sefarim you enjoy, in a way that is pleasant and calming, as much as you can.

As stated at the beginning, it's best if you to read the entire PDF yourself to get whatever you individually can get out of it (which will be different in some respects from what I get out of it, due to the innate variance of "holy individuality").

And future posts will discuss other aspects of the PDF.

In His Great Compassion, may Hashem please bring the Geula sweetly & swiftly.
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Please note that Rav Itamar strongly & lovingly opposes Internet use. He is in no way associated with the Bilvavi website, which was established by one of his students (probably via a charedi Internet center using Netfree) solely for the purpose of kiruv for secular Jews. See here for more: https://eng.bilvavi.net/opinion/
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Rav Avigdor Miller on the True Story behind the Kamtza bar Kamtza Fiasco & What It REALLY Means

31/7/2020

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It's still Tisha B'Av for some of you, while for some of us, it's the 10th of Av, which is the continuation of our mourning because while the Beit HaMikdash was ignited on the 9th of Av, it continued burning throughout the 10th of Av.

Please read what Rav Avigdor Miller said about the whole Kamtza & Bar Kamtza fiasco, which ended up being the last straw prior to the Churban (Destruction).

It's...WOW.

I̶ ̶w̶o̶u̶l̶d̶ ̶l̶i̶n̶k̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶i̶t̶,̶ ̶b̶u̶t̶ ̶i̶t̶'̶s̶ ̶n̶o̶t̶ ̶u̶p̶ ̶a̶t̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶t̶i̶m̶e̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶t̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶w̶r̶i̶t̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶a̶t̶ ̶T̶o̶r̶a̶s̶ ̶A̶v̶i̶g̶d̶o̶r̶.̶ ̶(̶I̶ ̶r̶e̶c̶e̶i̶v̶e̶d̶ ̶i̶t̶ ̶v̶i̶a̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶i̶r̶ ̶e̶m̶a̶i̶l̶ ̶s̶i̶g̶n̶-̶u̶p̶.̶)̶ ̶I̶'̶l̶l̶ ̶l̶i̶n̶k̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶i̶t̶ ̶w̶h̶e̶n̶ ̶i̶t̶'̶s̶ ̶u̶p̶.̶​

UPDATE 25/7/21: It's up now here:
https://torasavigdor.org/rav-avigdor-miller-on-kamtza-bar-kamtza-the-real-story/


It could be you've never heard the real story told like this before...

Rav Avigdor Miller on the Truth behind Kamtza bar Kamtza

Q [from an anonymous questioner in the audience]:
How can you claim the Jews at the time of the churban were so righteous? We know the story of Kamtza bar Kamtza and that the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed because of sinas chinam?
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 A [from Rav Avigdor Miller]:
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Now, there’s a big misconception that the public has about a certain Gemara in Mesichta Yuma.

In Mesichta Yuma (9b) the Gemara asks: Why was the Beis Hamikdash charuv? Why was it destroyed?

​When we say Beis Hamikdash we mean not only the Beis Hamikdash – it means the whole setup of Jewish independence and commonwealth. 

So the Gemara says that the first Beis Hamikdash was destroyed because of certain reasons and then the Gemara asks: What about the second Beis Hamikdash? Why was that destroyed? And the Gemara says because of sinas chinam; because of causeless hatred.

Now, on this there is a great deal of misconception.

I was once in a Orthodox school, a very Orthodox school, and I saw on the wall there were two pictures. One was a picture of a concentration camp. Jews in the concentration camp and they’re being thrown into fire, the crematorium.

And next to it was another picture of Kamtza bar Kamtza in ancient Yerushalayim just before the churban;and the host was ejecting him from a banquet – Kamtza bar Kamtza was being ejected from a banquet. Kamtza bar Kamtza was dressed in a black hat and a kapote; he had a nice beard too.

He was represented as a decent person, maybe even a talmid chochom, and he was being ejected from the banquet.
 
Those were the two pictures and there was a chain with links connecting them; the picture of Jews being killed in the camps linked to the picture of Kamtza bar Kamtza in ancient Yerushalayim. 

And the people who made these pictures understood it as follows:

The Gemara says (Gittin 55b) why was Yerushalayim destroyed?

Because of Kamtza bar Kamtza.

Because a man once wanted to make a banquet and he invited all the talmidei chachomim to the banquet and he sent his servant to invite a certain sage named Kamtza.

But the servant made an error and he invited Kamtza bar Kamtza, a different person.

Now, when Kamtza bar Kamtza came, the host said, “I’m sorry but I didn’t invite you. This is a private gathering and you therefore must leave.”

So Kamtza bar Kamtza said, ”You’re embarrassing me. Let me stay and I’ll give you the cost of my meal.”

But the host wouldn’t allow him to stay at the private banquet and after some haggling Kamtza bar Kamtza offered to pay for the whole banquet if he would be allowed to remain.

But the host said no and he took him by his garment and he led him out; he ejected him. And for that, the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed.

So, underneath the pictures was a statement printed in big letters, that the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed because of sinas chinam; in other words, these two stories were equated.

They were trying to say that because Kamtza bar Kamtza was ejected, that was sinas chinam, and that was the example of the causeless hatred prevalent in Yerushalayim. And therefore that caused a chain that led up to the crematorium, to Jews being burned in Hitlerland.

Now, that really is what most people think. That’s the picture they have.

They put together these two statements, the story of Kamtza bar Kamtza and the statement of sinas chinam that destroyed the Beis Hamikdash and they understand that this is what caused all our troubles from then on. 

It’s a terrible misconception! It’s a slander on the Jewish people! A terrible error!

First of all, who was Kamtza bar Kamtza? Who was this character?

Josephus, in his Vita – that’s his own life story – he relates that Kamsus the son of Kamsus was a Herodian. Which means he was a rasha; he was a member of the clique of the house of Hurdos. And the house of Hurdos, the Herodians, were our enemies. They were our bitter enemies; we suffered tzaros from them without number.

Now the Gemara tells us that this host had sages at his banquet table. He made a private seudah for the chachomim to gather. And we know that נקיי הדעת שבירושלים לא היו יושבים אלא אם כן יודעים עם מי היו יושבים‏ – The pure minded sages of Yerushalayim never sat down at a meal or a meeting unless they knew who was present.

It was a principle of theirs. They didn’t believe in sitting down in a moshav leitzim. 

And sometimes there could be one person, a leitz, who can spoil everything. One careless person who shoots his mouth off, he spoils the whole atmosphere.

So the נקיי הדעת שבירושלים, the people whose minds were pure, would only associate with other pure minded people. They wouldn’t be impolite to others. They didn’t demonstrate that they were standoffish but they made it their business not to be around when the wrong people were around.

Now, this host invited the pure-minded people, the chachomim.

It says in the Gemara that all the chachomim were there.

And who marches in?

None other than Kamsus bar Kamsus who is famous as a member of the Herodian clique, an enemy of the sages.

He was a moser, an informer, and he was delighted that he was invited there. Because now he could sit and listen to the deliberation of the sages. That’s what he wanted – to sit and listen in so he could know their plans. This would be his chance; otherwise he could never get in because the sages would never discuss things publicly.

But here some mistake was made and Kamtza bar Kamtza hastened to utilize it.

So he hurried and dressed up and he came to the banquet. Here he is! And he wants to sit down with the chachomim and listen in to what’s going on.

And naturally he’s going to bring all the information he has to the Herodian clique who are waiting in order to undo any good things that the chachomim wanted for do for the people.

So the host was now in a dilemma. What could he do? Either he could send away all of his guests, or he could send away this informant, this rasha.

Now, you have to understand that the Torah is very just.

The Gemara is extremely fair.

In fact, the Gemara leans all the way over for fairness.

And so when this low character – and he was a low character. That we know because what did he do subsequently out of revenge when he was ejected from the banquet? He went to the Romans and he told them that the Jews are in revolt against you.

That’s the worst thing you can say. It’s like throwing a spark in dynamite.

Because the Romans were afraid of revolt and they punished most cruelly any small sign of revolt. So this man Kamtza bar Kamtza was an enemy of the Jews; you could see that. Because he started all the trouble.

And still when this host got up and he remonstrated with Kamtza bar Kamtza and finally he had to take him by his lapels and lead him out, our sages said it was wrong. It was a sin.

Now how was it a sin?

That’s too much for us to understand. What would we have done?!

Otherwise Kamtza bar Kamtza would be sitting there and the sages wouldn’t say a word. The whole evening would be wasted. You couldn’t open your mouth when this informant was sitting there.

And still, such is the judgment of the Gemara. It’s fair and severe, and therefore it says there that this is what caused the destruction of Yerushalayim.

It doesn’t mean that this is really a sin; that this was the cause.

Yerushalayim would have been destroyed anyhow.

But when Hakodosh Boruch Hu sought a match that would set the fire, He chose this to be the match. It was a poetic justice.

Don’t misunderstand this! It wasn’t this that caused the Churban. This was just a spark that set off the fire.

Yerushalayim wasn’t destroyed because of this.

But when Hakodosh Boruch Hu had already decided forty years earlier to destroy Yerushalayim – that’s what the Gemara says; forty years before He had already decided to destroy Yerushalayim – so He waited for an opportunity and He utilized this opportunity to teach a lesson.

So when Kamtza bar Kamtza was heard to have gone to the Romans and he started the trouble, it was a parable; it was meant to be used as a lesson – that we shouldn’t have embarrassed him. 

Now we don’t really understand that lesson – it’s too fair for us to understand.

But that’s what the Gemara does – the Gemara uses a magnifying glass and the smallest thing is magnified as if it’s a sin.

You shouldn’t have ejected him; you should’ve let the evening be ruined. And all the sages should have just sat there in silence and that’s all.

You couldn’t cancel the banquet. All the food would have gone lost. There were no refrigerators in those days. All the food would go lost! It can’t be helped. It was an expensive banquet but it can’t be helped. Don’t put a man to shame.

And that’s why this poetic lesson was utilized – to teach the people a lesson. You shouldn’t have embarrassed him.

So what is this business that sinas chinam, that causeless hatred caused the churban.

It says in the Gemara that causeless hatred caused the destruction.

So many Jews think it means that the Jews hated each other, that frum Jews hated each other. That’s what they think. They think that the whole nation at that time were all frum Jews, all talmidei chachomim, and they were all busy hating each other. And that’s why the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed! 

But that’s as silly as could be. It’s not realistic at all!

They didn’t hate; the frum Jews loved each other! In those days, the whole nation, the Am Hatorah was divided into followers of Beis Shammai and followers of Beis Hillel. The entire Jewish nation was divided into those who followed Beis Shammai and those who followed Beis Hillel. These were the two great assemblies of Torah sages.

There wasn’t anybody else that was of the shelomei emunei Yisroel, of frum Jews. We’re not talking about the reshaim. 

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True Jews all were talmidim of Beis Shammai or of Beis Hillel. 

And the Gemara (Yevamos 14b) says openly that the talmidim of Beis Shammai and Beis Hillel loved each other.

These two schools, although they had different opinions on some things, even on very important things, but they loved each other. שהיו אוהבים זה את זה – They loved one another, לקיים מה שנאמר – in order to fulfill the possuk of, האמת והשלום אהבו – Love the truth but love peace too. 

They loved the truth; that’s why each one stuck to his opinions but they loved peace too.

And the Gemara talks about that. The Gemara dilates on how they loved each other.

Now if Beis Shammai loved Beis Hillel and vice versa so Beis Shammai certainly loved Beis Shammai. And Beis Hillel loved Beis Hillel. It doesn’t make sense that Beis Hillel loved Beis Shammai but they didn’t love their own people. It’s ridiculous. The Jewish people loved each other – there was no sinas chinam.

I once saw that an adam gadol wrote – I won’t mention his name – he was misled, and on the strength of this ma’amar that the Beis Hamikdash was laid waste because of sinas chinam, he wrote that unfortunately the frum Jews were too critical of each other and they sometimes suspected each other of not being frum enough.

Now, that’s just taken out of thin air! There is no authority for that at all anywhere!

So what does it mean that there was sinas chinam? 

Who were the ones who hated for nothing? These were the Tzedukim. There were irreligious Jews there too who were not of Beis Shammai or Beis Hillel. The Tzedukim hated the sages! That’s the sinas chinam!

You’ll ask a question: So because the Tzedukim, the wicked people, hated the sages, therefore the Jewish nation is responsible?

The answer is yes, because they were also Jews.

When Jews are wicked the entire Jewish nation is responsible.

That’s a great principle in the Torah. We are treated as one individual. Kol Yisroel areivim zeh la’zeh – all of Yisroel are guarantors for one another means that we’re one body, we’re one person.

And therefore we were held responsible for the misdeeds of Kamtza bar Kamtza and the Tzedukim and all those who hated the chachomim.

Do you want that example of hatred?

The New Testament is an example of the hatred towards the sages.

If you want a textbook which is full of venom against the sages, that’s the New Testament.

Because the New Testament is full of great anger, endless anger against the Pharisees. Constantly it’s reiterated. The Pharisees are promised that there’s only one place where they’re going to go when they’re dead. When they die they’re going to a certain place and it’s reiterated over and over again in the New Testament.

The chachomim are called vipers and snakes. They are the worst kind of hypocrites and criminals.

Now, who are the Pharisees?

The Pharisees are Rabbi Dosa ben Harkinus, Rabbi Eliezer ben Hurkinos, Rabban Gamliel Hazaken and his son Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel, Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakai.

All these famous names; they are our luminaries, our teachers. Their lives we study. It’s their words that inspire us. M’pihen anu chayim! There’re the best of our nation! They’re the cream of our nation. They are the ones who the New Testament condemn us as the worst.

Now you people may not believe it; it may seem exaggerated to you.

But the fact is that the New Testament mentions other nations too. It mentions a lot of people. It mentions the Romans but it has nothing bad to say against the Romans. It mentions the Greeks but there’s no criticism against the Greeks. It mentions the Samaritans, the Kusim, but no criticism of the Samaritans. It mentions the Sadducees too; no criticism of the Sadducees.

But when it speaks about the Pharisees, then they let loose; they turn around and let loose like a skunk that gives the best that it has to offer and the New Testament pours a torrent on the chachomim. Not only once! All the time; all the pages of the New Testament are splattered with that poison against the chachomim.

But they were all Jews however. In those days they were all Jews; they were still Jews.

And so if you want to know why the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed, so the Gemara says that there was hatred, sinas chinam.

Whose hatred? Not the sages! And not the people who followed the sages!

They wouldn’t hate anybody – they were the ones who were being hated!

That’s the point that’s missed by all the writers. All the writers who speak on this subject misunderstand it. They blame our poor people for sinas chinam.

There’s no remez anywhere that there was causeless hatred among the sages and their disciples.

But there was a very great hatred against them!

The Saducees hated the sages!

And the gemara says certain types of amei ha’aretz were also sonim; they hated the sages.

It’s a gemara in Pesachim. You remember what Rabbi Akiva said? He said, “When I was an am ha’aretz, if I would get a hold of a sage I would tear him to pieces.” He testified later that that’s what he thought when he was an am ha’aretz.

It was these people – they’re the ones because of whom the Beis Hamikdash was ruined.

Because our nation has to be perfect!

And when we have in our body-politic, in the commonwealth of the Jewish nation a certain poisoned minority, so that means that the body is not healthy and therefore Hakodosh Boruch Hu had to make a change of climate.

​And that’s why the Beis Hamikdash was destroyed.

TAPE # 107

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"The Air is a Ruination"

30/7/2020

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Note: I didn't actually post this today; the day before, I scheduled it to appear at this time. Because I'm not actually here, there may be a delay in answering any comments or emails connected to this post.

Here's what Rav Avigdor Miller is quoted as saying in the booklet Parshat V'Etchanan 3 on page 14, regarding the difference between Yerushalayim in the times of the Beit HaMikdash and living anywhere today:

How much easier it was in those days to come closer to Hakodosh Boruch Hu.

There was no New York Times in those days.

​There was no TV, no radio, no internet.

Even if you don’t have it in your house, the fact that it’s in the air is a ruination; it’s in the atmosphere - you can’t help yourself because the streets are soaking in shtus and ta’avah and immorality.


This is very similar to what Rav Itamar Schwartz said on page 28 in the Bilvavi.Corona.Q.and.A.pdf:

This kerinah-radiation [Wi-Fi] is not only found by those who own internet-capability devices, because it is found in every obscene place in the central zones of cities.

Even more so, its rays [Wi-Fi] can come through any wall of any house, entering into any home, even in a home that does not have any internet-capability devices.
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We need to understand that our very existence as we live in this generation is infected by the harmful spiritual effects that this invisible radiation [Wi-Fi] has on us, because we are all living within the invisible field of this tumah that fills every space.

​Therefore, there is no one who can be saved from it totally, and therefore it is able to harm anyone, whether they are tzaddikim or whether they are not tzaddikim.


We NEED Mashiach to come NOW.

We NEED the Beit Hamikdash.

We NEED the cleansing qualities of the Holy Ketoret.

There is NO other way to save ourselves.

May we experience genuine grief over our tragic loss and in this merit, may Hashem have mercy on us and redeem us from all this tumah.


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Rav Avigdor Miller on Parshat V'Etchanan:

29/7/2020

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You can also see Rav Avigdor Miller's great Tisha B'Av hitorerut here:
Tisha B'Av: Mourning for Our Perfection

Rav Avigdor Miller's dvar Torah for Parshat V'Etchanan: Honor Thy Parents contains a wealth of information on how to honor your parents, and inspiration for feeling the necessary gratitude.

But what jumped out at me was a brief comment Rav Miller made regarding the shift he made over the years of giving the class.

On page 8, Rav Miller notes that initially, his lecture's attendees consisted of the adult children of non-frum parents.

Therefore, he couldn't do more than mention the mitzvah of honoring parents because "who knows what their parent will tell them to do?"

Honoring non-frum parents is a thorny task and sincere baalei teshuvah find themselves with many questions to maneuver this minefield.

Sure, some secular parents go out of their way to accommodate their frum children and grandchildren, making it much easier to honor them.

But others are more of a challenge.

Anyway, despite the enormous importance of this mitzvah and Rav Miller's vast knowledge of it, he decided it was too much of a stumbling block for that particular group, so he focused on other aspects of Torah.

This is the sign of a real chacham (wise man) & someone who really cares.

Rav Miller made himself aware of the composition of this particular audience & tailored his message to best suit their needs.​

It's Still a Big Favor Even If We didn't Ask for It.

In today's world, Rav Miller notes that many people delete their filial gratitude with ideas like, "I didn't ask to be born!"

In recent years, abortion is increasingly portrayed as an act of compassion upon the unborn child who may be born into a difficult situation.

In the Eighties, syndicated advice columns published letters from people who described a traumatic childhood and concluded with the heartfelt wish that their parents had aborted them.

Unfortunately, those testimonies were compelling propaganda for my generation. 

Rav Miller notes that many parents also capitulate to that idea ("I didn't ask to be born!"), as if they owe their children.

It's true that parents should bring up their children well — and this means raising them in a way that gains them the best Olam Haba possible.

Also, every soul comes into the world with certain tikkun (rectifications) to complete.

As the Pele Yoetz advises, training children to focus on what makes Hashem happy must be a major part of chinuch.

​So if a parent "owes" a child something, it's guiding them on the path of being a joyful Jew.

​("Jew" meaning someone fully committed to Torah & mitzvot, not just a slap-happy assimilationist.)​ 

Try This 1 Baby-Step

In line with his approach of greatness via baby-steps, Rav Miller recommends saying the 3 verses at the end of Shemoneh Esrei with feeling. (See page 13.)

These verses plead with Hashem to bring back the Beit Hamikdash so we can serve him like days of old.

Try your best to say it with a pang in your heart.

Essential Reading for Tisha B'Av & Rav Miller's Answer about Aliyah

On pages 14-15, Rav Miller brings the times of the Beit Hamikdash to life in colorful detail — essential reading before Tisha B'Av!

​On the very last page, Rav Miller offers food for thought regarding whether one should make aliyah to Eretz Yisrael.


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What are the Medical Facts & Spiritual Truths behind the Face-Mask Phenomenon of Coronavirus?

28/7/2020

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A couple of weeks ago, a delightful reader sent me the latest English translation of Rav Itamar Schwartz's Q&A regarding these Corona Times.

You can read/download it here:
Bilvavi.Corona.Q.and.A.pdf

And WOW — truly amazing & beneficial insights abound. 

It has been simmering in my mind since I read it.

There's a lot to say about it, but it was Rav Schwartz's discussion of masks that hit me between the eyes.

Let's Get Cynical for a Moment

As regular readers know, I've been rather cynical about the whole effectiveness of face masks.

Why? Because:

  • People aren't wearing effective masks (my understanding is that only the N95 masks really protect others from your germs).
 
  • People do not wear the masks effectively (i.e., there are all sorts of gaps around the mask, the pores are bigger than the coronavirus, etc.).
 
  • People are not using the masks hygienically with regard to themselves or others. (More on that later below.)
 
  • People receive no instruction on removing the masks sterilely and therefore, do not remove them without the risk of infecting themselves & others.
 
  • In general, you cannot trust people to follow hygiene properly. Even hospitals unintentionally infect & sometimes kill their patients via laxness in hygienic practices.

Yes, it's true: Even hospitals accidentally infect & even kill their patients via laxness by hospital staff in hygienic practices.

1 in 31 hospital patients suffer at least one healthcare related infection (CDC).

In Europe, it's 1 in 20 (source).


Another study found that staff at the University of Arizona Medical Center washed their hands 90% of the time.

Even with the problems carrying out that study (people perform better when they know they're watched), I really don't understand why it's not 100%. I soap-wash my hands automatically at home after touching just raw meat or fish, and all sorts of other reasons (without being OCD about it, BTW) — all the more so, if I worked with sick & vulnerable people.

Also, when I volunteered at an American hospital, they emphasized exactly how long to wash hands (for the time it takes to sing Yankee Doodle), exactly how to do so, and emphasizing that wiping hands with clean paper towels removes even more germs after the hand-washing.

And they emphasized how important hand-washing is overall.

So why only 90%, especially after such training & explanation?

Also, as stated above, the data collection is iffy because when people know they're being observed, they perform better.

A study from the Greenville Healthcare System in South Carolina used secret cameras & discovered hand-washing compliance as low as 54%.

​Worldwide, only 40% of doctors & nurses wash their hands as they should. (source)

In Australia, 64-84.7% of doctors & nurses wash their hands as they should. (source)


This is despite the availability of hand-cleaning equipment, posted reminders, their training, and their knowledge.

And these are your trained medical professionals.

All the more so, your average non-medical professional will be lax.

Likewise, with masks.

The Problem with Mask Enforcement

​You cannot trust people to wear masks properly.

And if you look around to see what masks people are wearing, whether they're wearing them effectively, and if you have any idea how much people are reusing masks WITHOUT washing or sunning them to kill germs, then you know that many people are NOT wearing their masks effectively.

And just for knowing, I came across studies in which a minority of surgeons refuse to wear masks during surgery because they felt it endangered the procedure due to feeling faint & not being able to see well (source). 

(This study clearly contradicts what many doctors in the media, including the frum media, say.)


So...yeah.

Furthermore, I sometimes experience severe breathing shortage & MUST remove the mask, especially after climbing stairs outside.

If I have the wire closed properly over the bridge of my nose, I absolutely cannot breathe enough.

So I don't close the wire. Instead, my vision is impaired.

And that's my major & unexpected problem with the masks: the inability to see properly.

The mask hampers my lower visual perception, which affects crossing the street & other aspects of daily life.

For example, I take my 5-year-old on the bus to school.

To keep track of him, I need to bend my neck all the way down to see him over the mask, which then hampers my peripheral vision of other things or people around me.


You can pooh-pooh it if you want, but managing on a crowded bus with my child, other people's children & strollers (which demand both lower visual perception & side visual perception) has become very stressful because looking straight down at a 90-degree angle prevents me from seeing properly anything to the side (and makes it even harder to breathe, incidentally).

At one point, I even sat down right on the leg of a 7-year-old (who had his leg on the seat to save it for his big brother) because I did not see his leg.

Yes, of course I saw the child and I DID look to see if anyone was sitting next to him!

​I did!


However, I did not bend my head so that my chin was touching my collarbone, which is what I needed to do to see the actual seat upon which lay the child's leg.

(Fortunately, he was more startled than hurt and very nicely forgave me.)
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Mask-free, you can see all around you just by tipping & swiveling your head slightly. 

But with a mask covering your nose, you need to make exaggerated motions, which allow you to see only a limited area at a time.


Furthermore, studies involving surgeons & other healthcare professionals show that wearing masks for prolonged periods cause:

  • "significantly different temperatures and humidity in the microclimates of facemasks, which have profound influences on heart rate and thermal stress and subjective perception of discomfort." (source)
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  • headaches (source)
 
  • rash (ibid)
 
  • impaired cognition (ibid)

In Israel, bus drivers must wear masks, but I noticed that many do not cover their nose, which is smart because bus drivers certainly need their lower visual perception!

So why do I wear a mask?

Why are We Wearing Masks? More Insights & Facts...

I wear a mask because:

  • I don't enjoy confrontations with police & the resulting fines.
 
  • Several very big rabbis said to follow these guidelines, and some even used very strong language against those who feel differently. (More on that in a minute.)
 
  • ​I know a lot of people feel distressed around someone who isn't wearing a mask.
(They are uninformed OR they know people who suffered complications/death from COVID-19, so the threat feels very real OR they suffer understandable anxiety about the whole situation in general.)

  • I can talk to Hashem outside in public without anyone knowing because no one can see my mouth moving.

Now let's look at why many rabbis insist on masks, even to the point of using very strong language (as if the masks really do save lives), despite the facts on the ground.

Consulting with Smart Yet Unaware Professionals: Why So Many of Our Own Insist on Unquestionable Adherence to Questionable Guidelines

​Most rabbis get their medical information from highly reputed doctors.

​That sounds logical & responsible, right?


Many rabbis do not read medical abstracts (like the ones sourced in this post). Instead, they rely on trusted physicians to inform them.

And this sounds like a very reasonable short-cut to acquiring impeccable information, right?

After all, these doctors are shomrei Torah & mitzvot, have likely displayed their integrity by performing chessed for people in the community, and are top-notch professionals in their area.

Again, it's a very logical & responsible short-cut. 

But doctors are people too & may be out of touch or lack certain facts or lack sensitivity.

For example, I've read a couple of interviews with frum doctors who act like wearing a mask is no big deal.

"I wear one all the time!" is one phrase that pops out. "For years!"

The ones promoted in the media express discomfort regarding masks (except the problem of glasses steaming up) — despite the evidence presented in the study above, which shows that surgeons clearly experience discomfort & physical symptoms while wearing a mask.

And they aren't moving around much in surgery.


Also, doctors are not typically on their feet outside maneuvering streets, stairs, and buses in the summer heat surrounded by small children, strollers, and shopping bags.

They go from air-conditioned homes to air-conditioned cars to air-conditioned work environments and back again.

Inside, they can take elevators instead of stairs while wearing a mask.

And unless they're working the ER at a very busy time, they probably aren't wearing a mask while pressed in a crowd of people (and trying to manage a small child).

Yet according to the above studies, doctors & nurses DO experience discomfort and even problematic HEALTH issues while wearing masks — something these media-promoted doctors either deny or omit.

And even in these controlled environments, a survey of nurses DID complain of breathing & communication difficulties, nausea, and visual challenges (source).

​One nurse even withdrew from the study because she could not tolerate wearing the mask after only 30 minutes — and she wasn't on a crowded bus or climbing stairs in the heat.

That right there should pull the rug out from under all the doctors who boast "IIIIIIIIIIII wear the ask aaaaall the time with nooooo problem — so you should too!"

We're all different with different physiology.

Obviously, one nurse could not tolerate the mask for more than 30 minutes while others could manage (uncomfortably) for hours.

To better understand the "we're all different" theme, let's look at the people who care for the elderly, which also entails changing adult diapers.

They do this all day every day.

Does that mean you or I could do that job?

If elderly care-takers said, "Well, I do it all the time, so that means you can too," would that be an appropriate or convincing argument for all of us to take on the task of changing adult diapers?


(And it distresses me to see 7- or 8-year-olds on the bus wearing these masks. They don't look well & it's obviously unhealthy for them. I really question both the compassion & the seichel of the people who decided that such young children must wear these things for so long.)

Furthermore, do doctors really NOT know that people are NOT wearing the proper masks AND not wearing them properly? 

Oddly, it seems most doctors do not know this.

​Some do know, but many apparently don't.


Do they really not know that the average person is not & will not be hygiene-compliant about masks?

I mean, they know that in their own work environments, the rules of hygiene are not followed nearly as well as they should. So why would they assume than an untrained & less knowledgeable population would do any better?

For example, all those cloth masks (with iffy effectiveness, considering the tiny size of the coronavirus): Do doctors think they are being sanitized properly after EACH use?

They're NOT being sanitized.

They're really not!

Even when told about germs and the whole shebang, a lot of people either refuse or forget to wash or sun their spiffy logo mask after each use. Or even after 20 uses.

(Yuck, I know.)

The same is true for those standard-issue blue-white masks.

People repeatedly re-use them without cleaning them.

Back to the doctors: I do not think these doctors are KNOWINGLY dishonest.

But for whatever reason, they seem completely unaware of the facts on the ground.

And so, with good intentions combined with a serious a lack of awareness, they advise their rabbis in the way that they do.

And if you're wondering why I'm listening to the rabbis who are listening to these doctors whom I consider out of touch, it's because it's min haShamayim that these doctors are saying what they do & that these rabbis are listening to davka these doctors.

​As you'll see below, Hashem could provide them with a different message if He wanted.

And indeed, some rabbanim receive a different message.

For example, a caring reader sent me a link to a psak from the Shaarei Shalom Beit Din in Beit Shemesh signed by Rav Pinchas Shapira and Rav Yisroel Meir Veil. Therein, they mentioned "numerous testimonies" brought before them, which show that wearing a face mask "is not at all necessary from a medical standpoint; it's hevel v'tohu (meaningless)." (source)


And at this point, you are probably legitimately wondering what this all has to do with Rav Schwartz's latest PDF...

Rav Schwartz Speaks the Truth about Masks

If you turn to page 106 in the Bilvavi Corona PDF, you'll see a question with the assumption that people not wearing masks are doing so for spiritual reasons.

Yet Rav Schwartz immediately answers...no.

For most of the non-mask-wearers, it has nothing to do with one's spiritual level.

The non-compliant people are simply aware of OTHER medical opinions.

That's what the rav says.

Also, he acknowledges: "...health experts disagree" — exactly!

Rav Schwartz is one of the very few I've heard acknowledge this.

​(Please also note that this PDF came out before the psak din and some questions were dealt with as much as a month or 2 ago, going on the information available back then.)

​I've no idea how Rav Schwartz knows that health experts disagree, whether he consulted with the right people or acquired the abstracts of key studies.

​Either way, he clearly has access to accurate information.

Then the rav emphasizes the importance of not distressing others. It's true.

Some people who are understandably very distressed when people do not wear masks around them.

(Even though, as described above, people are both not wearing effective masks & not using them hygienically.)

It's important to be considerate of people's feelings. Rav Miller explained this at length in his dvar Torah regarding ona'at devarim.

And as explained above, Rav Schwartz acknowledges that "wearing a mask is both helpful and detrimental."

​He knows! He knows!

He also adds (underline mine): 
"If a person is careful when it comes to hygiene and he makes sure to keep changing the mask for a new one, then wearing a mask is very helpful, especially in a quarantined section."

He further notes that the real issue of a mask is to avoid infecting others (something not understood by many people initially), and that we must not be holy or clever on the cheshbon of others.

It's true that in a group situation, wearing a fresh non-valve N95 mask PROPERLY will make the environment safer for others.

(Most people either won't or can't, but if they would & could, then it's true.)

The emphasis being on OTHERS, since as demonstrated above, wearing a mask harms the wearer, especially while going about daily life.

​(And as shown above, it also harms small children when adults can't see where they're sitting, and plop themselves down on the leg of an innocent child.)

Everything the rav said showed real awareness of facts on the ground (like how people are re-using masks and not being careful with hygiene).

On page 110, Rav Schwartz notes the importance of paying attention to experts' guidelines and following them on a halachic level.

Real experts are people who actually know what they are talking about.

Rav Schwartz also does not advise following government rules blindly.

For example, on page 111, Rav Schwartz replies to such a question by saying, "​We would need to clarify how much of a risk of danger there is, and accordingly we can then know how we should act halachically."

What I really appreciate and benefit so much from Rav Schwartz is his focus on deliberation and consideration.

There is no knee-jerk response here. There's no fear.

Somehow, he has made himself aware of the actual facts.

And halacha is premier.

Furthermore, on page 16, Rav Schwartz provides an intriguing spiritual insight into the decree of wearing masks (which though imposed on us by authorities of questionable character, it originates from Above):
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  • The mask reminds us of the Sin of the Golden Calf (the basis of which still affects us today & needs to be rectified).
 
  • By covering the mouth & the nose, the mask hints at the state of This World being covered over in preparation for revelation of the Next World.

B'ezrat Hashem, I'll be discussing other issues mentioned in this PDF.

Also, the PDF shows how the people associated with Rav Schwartz ask such good questions, questions that are on all our minds, and questions that show genuine awareness of "facts on the ground."

And there are so many pertinent points to learn from Rav Schwartz, plus points for doing teshuvah.

A big yashar koach to Bilvavi.

Please note that Rav Itamar Schwartz strongly & lovingly opposes Internet use. He has no connection to the Bilvavi website, which was established by one of his students (probably via a charedi Internet center using Netfree) solely for the purpose of kiruv for secular Jews. See here for more: https://eng.bilvavi.net/opinion/
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What Hatred Really Destroyed the Temple? A Fascinating Q&A with Rav Avigdor Miller

27/7/2020

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The newest transcription of a Q&A is up at Toras Avigdor, and boy, is it shocking.

(Note: Not sure exactly when this Q&A occurred, but Avneri served in the Knesset between 1965-74, then again in 1979-81, and Mapai was a center-Left party that lasted from 1930-1968. So that, combined with the tape number, likely places it in the mid- to late 1960s.)

Whose Sinas Chinam Caused the Churban?

Q:
Was the Beis Hamikdash destroyed because of sinas chinam, baseless hatred, among frum Jews?


A:
No, there’s no sinas chinam among the Jews. Don’t let anyone tell you that.

The sinas chinam the Gemara talks about means the causeless hatred of the type that comes from Avneri, the representative of the homosexuals in the Knesses today.

He hates decent Jews. The communists there too, or the Mapai, they hate the Jews.

That’s the sinas chinam — but decent Jews don’t have sinas chinam.

In the times of the Beis Hamikdash it wasn’t Shamai and Hillel and their talmidim who had sinas chinam.

It wasn’t the Pharisees and the multitudes of the frum Jews who were their followers, who were the problem.

The sinas chinam was from the Tzedukim and the Notzrim. They hated the sages and the frum Jews who sided with the sages.

And it was because they were Jews, it was their sinas chinam for which the Jewish nation suffered.

I understand that even some well-meaning writers and speakers have attempted to to apply the accusation of baseless hatred to the frum Jews at the time of the churban, but it’s a serious error.
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TAPE # R-55

(Used with permission from Toras Avigdor)

Wow. I sure would like to hear more about that. 

Anyway, it also got me thinking...

It's not uncommon for frum Jews to prefer or feel more sympathetically toward certain types of non-frum Jews than certain groups of their fellow frum Jews.

It's well-intentioned & often feels good, but it's also a sign of veering off into the wrong direction.

​And this is one of the aspects of Rav Miller that I really appreciate: the consistent push toward achdut with fellow shomerei Torah u'mitzvot regardless of the variables in hashkafah.

When we have a strong base of people who keep Shabbat and all the rest, then that strengthens those of us who already keep Shabbat while providing a firm foundation for any fellow Jews who wish to join in keeping Shabbat & all the other mitzvot.

Also, when Rav Miller says above: "There's no sinas chinam among the Jews," you might be saying to yourself: "Now, wait just one minute there..."

But as described on this blog several times, your regular Jew actually wants to bond with fellow Jews.

Having come from a predominantly non-Jewish society sprinkled with assimilating Jews, the connection I feel with fellow Jews in Eretz Yisrael always stood out for me.

It was the first time I was among large groups of Jews, both frum and not so frum.

​(I admit that even though I've been in Eretz Yisrael over half my life, I barely encountered the secular Leftist types. So most of my experiences have been pretty positive.)

A certain trust exists between us, especially frum Jews, and it's so natural & common, we barely notice it because it's expected; we take it for granted.

In fact, that's why we get so angry when maltreated by a fellow Jew, especially a frum Jew. We expect so much more from our fellow frummies, our disappointment becomes that much greater. We feel betrayed in a way we wouldn't with anyone else.

Just like how we feel disappointed by maltreatment from our siblings with whom we grew up.

Or the moments of friction stand out so much more, the marvelous stuff gets eclipsed.

As noted several times on this blog, a lot of Jews don't hate each other, except that the newspapers are so manipulative and vitriolic, they create fire and fan flames where there weren't any.

When I lived in Geula (near Meah Shearim), I found the people to be so nice. Demonized groups like Toldos Aharon, Neturei Karta, and Gerrer chassidus actual contain some of the most good-hearted people. Compassionate, sensitive, and warm in their own way, I encountered several situations in which I felt very cared about by Jews generally demonized as hate-filled close-minded fanatics & zealots.

Since marrying, I've found myself living in buildings comprising frum Jews of different groups, different politics, different ethnicities, different nationalities, different mother-tongues, and so on — all in one building!

And generally, people get along. Not always, but a lot.

At the very least, there's a desire to get along on the part of most.

Sure, we all have our flaws and sometimes stress & Galus overwhelm our yetzer hatov.

But I've seen a lot of good.

And I've also seen frum faces glow with pleasure when they speak about a frum friendship they've cultivated outside their specific frum group, or how their children play with children from another group.

A lot of Jews wish to bond together and even manage to do so.

Rav Miller isn't blind to our flaws; transcripts of his lecture show how aware he is of our flaws as he chastises us for everything from being noisy in a street late at night to not speaking nicely enough to our spouse to not appreciating apples & air enough.

​But overall, we possess a lot of good.

Problematic leadership (NOT Gadolei Hador, but other kinds of leadership), plus media that stirs up a lot of hatred (including self-hatred), causes the main problems.

What people do wrong gets into the newspapers.

What people do right receives very little, if any, publicity. 

To see stories of Jews who behave well, and therefore will never make the news, please see the posts collected in the category:
The Stunning Greatness of "Regular" Jews
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One Way to Differentiate between the Voice of the Yetzer Hatov and the Voice of the Yetzer Hara

26/7/2020

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We often struggle to tell the difference between the voice of the yetzer hatov (good inclination) and the voice of the yetzer hara (evil inclination).

Originally, the voice of the yetzer hara existed outside of the human being in the form of the Nachash (the Snake).

The Nachash came to Chava (Eve) and spoke to her in second-person — “You.”

Chava wasn’t looking to eat from the Tree of Knowledge. Disaster did not begin with Chava saying, “I could really use some Tree of Knowledge fruit right now.”

No.

The fatal push came from outside Chava.

The Nachash came to Chava saying you, you, you —YOU will not die, YOUR eyes will be opened, YOU will be like God…in other words: YOU should really do this. YOU will like it. YOU will benefit from this.

And once she listened, the yetzer hara & the yetzer hatov switched places: The yetzer hara became internalized while the yetzer hatov ended up outside.

The yetzer hara no longer speaks from outside of us; it no longer says “you” — YOU should do this, YOU need that, etc.

Now the yetzer hara says “I.”

For example:


  • “I want what my neighbor has.”
  • “I like money.”
  • “I really need a cigarette.”
  • “I sure could use a drink!”
  • “I just can’t help myself.”
  • “I deserve a reward.”
  • “They can’t treat ME like that!”
  • “No one better ever speak to me that way!”
  • “I just can’t help myself.”
  • “I’ll show ’em who’s boss.”
  • “I can’t do anything right.”
  • “There’s no hope for me.”

And so on.

Rav Dessler notes that thoughts emanating from our desires come in the first-person: “I” “me,” “my,” etc.

Yet thoughts emanating from the spiritual arena, like the prodding of the yetzer hatov, approach us in second-person:
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  • “You really need to daven now.”
  • “You shouldn’t say that — it’s lashon hara.”
  • “Hey, you need to say Birkat HaMazon before it’s too late.”
  • “You should really apologize.”
  • “You’ll feel better if you restrain yourself.”
  • “Your child needs a hug.”
  • “Your spouse needs your help.”

Command form is also second-person (without stating “you” outright):

  • “Don’t touch that light; it’s still Shabbos.”
  • “Remember to say thank you.”
  • “Better take out the garbage; it only takes a minute.”

Needless to say, it’s a bit confusing because sometimes, you speak the voice of your yetzer hatov in first-person: “I WILL daven this Mincha with kavanah!”

(Although preceding your first-person declaration, maybe a second-person nudge came first: “You ought to daven Mincha with kavanah.”)

And our yetzer hara can speak in second-person.

But in general, the voice speaking in first-person (I) indicates the voice of non-spiritual desires — the voice of the yetzer hara.

The yetzer hatov presents itself in the second-person (you).

And this can offer us a much-needed clue as to which inclination is prodding us.

May Hashem grant us the wisdom & strength to always listen to the yetzer hatov.

From Rav Eliyahu Dessler’s Strive for Truth! Vol. 1, Part II, Discourse on Loving-Kindness: No Spiritual Arousal without Chessed.


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Rav Avigdor Miller on Parshat Devarim: How to Produce Vitamins of Happiness (including examples of what happens when people use substitutes)

23/7/2020

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In Rav Avigdor Miller's dvar Torah for Parshat Devarim: The Pursuit of Happiness, we learn a shocking truth:

The happiest phase for Am Yisrael was our time spent in the Midbar.

But how can that be?

​Right in the main text of the Torah, we read about how Am Yisrael complained about the lack of certain vegetables, Nile perch fish, and quail.

Am Yisrael didn't even have proper homes; they lived in tents because of constantly being on the move.

Also, Hashem even states that he led Am Yisrael in the Midbar for 40 years l'ma'an anotcha — to afflict you.

Yet Hashem also states: "lo chasarta davar — you didn't lack a thing."

How can that be?

With everything that happened, how can it be that Am Yisrael didn't lack a thing and from this, Rav Miller derives this as the happiest time for Am Yisrael?

Hashem Fulfilled Every NEED

In a nutshell, the answer on page 5 is:
“You lacked nothing” means that you lacked nothing that the Torah mind should desire!

​They learned to be happy in the midbar with all the happiness of life without needing more, without needing extras and luxuries.

In the Midbar, Am Yisrael had all the clothing they needed, all the food they needed, a place to live, peace... (Remember, the Cloud Pillar paved the way smooth for them, laundered their clothes, kept out enemy armies, and protected them from vipers & scorpions.)

As far as actual NEED went, Am Yisrael truly lacked nothing.

Lifestyles of the Rich: Organic Garlic Issues & Drug Abuse

Rav Miller makes the point that wealthy people tend to commit suicide more than poor people.

I also noticed that when I was a young adult, I learned so much about true generosity from people with less money. The less people had, the more generous they were with what they did have.

Wealthier people tended to be the stingiest and most likely to feel that they didn't have enough. (Not everyone, but it's pretty common.)

I knew someone who had a million dollars CASH in the bank (not just assets, but actual cash), and she always talked as if she were on the brink of financial disaster.

Via an acquaintance of my husband, we ended up spending a couple of Shabbos meals with upper-class people in an expensive neighbor in Israel.

They mostly weren't awful people, but I said to myself that I simply could not tolerate another Shabbos meal full of conversations like, "Organic garlic is soooooo expensive" and, of course, the sporadic charedi-bashing spurred on by what they proudly read in the popular English-language newspapers in Israel (even though my husband & I are obviously charedi & sitting right in front of their faces).

It's rare for working-class people to harp on how much things cost, especially things they can't afford anyway, like organic garlic. It also makes for really boring conversation. 

Like: "Organic garlic is soooo expensive."

"Oh, I know! Really."

"I mean, I looked at the price of the organic garlic and I could not believe it."

"Yeah, I know what you mean."

"And the organic parsley..."

Snoooooooooorrrrrrre.

​Of course you're going to be unhappy if the price of organic garlic upsets you so much.

​Also, people who don't NEED to work really do get themselves into more trouble.

And it's not just work either.

Rabbi Avraham Twerski told of a young alcoholic man who recalled that his only period of sobriety occurred when he needed to move in with an elderly aunt and take care of her.

​He ran errands and did her shopping and a whole lot more, and because she depended on him, he couldn't allow himself to drink during those months.

Needless to say, some addicts will still allow themselves to use (and abuse) in such a situation.

But for many people, having responsibility influences them positively.

A high school classmate quit smoking when he discovered that smoking damages one's singing ability (both the quality of voice & the ability to power the voice). He learned that the body's physical craving for tobacco only lasted for 3 days, and any craving after that was purely psychological. So he decided he just needed to pull through the initial 3 days, and from then on, he'd be fine.

And he never smoked again.

People involved in sports also tend to avoid major life mistakes, like addictions and so forth. 

I noticed that anyone with goals (a form of responsibility to oneself, at least) tended to behave better.

It's a generalization, of course, so it's not ALWAYS true. But it's OFTEN true.

But the more you have materialistically, the less you have in a sense.

For example, my husband & I worked for an American community comprising extremely wealthy Jews (mostly secular or traditional at most) and around 10 years later, we discovered that around half the couples had divorced in the meantime.

Going even more extreme: If you've ever known secular/non-Jewish people who grew up with real wealth, it's shocking to see how they degrade themselves.

First of all, they're incredibly promiscuous. They tend not to advertise it, but it's like they have no boundaries or morality in that area.

Secondly, they get so into hard drugs — because they can afford and their wealth softens the consequences for them.

For example, one girl told me about how she and other super-wealthy friends rented a penthouse, which they basically converted into an upper-class heroin den.

They sat around shooting themselves up, then passing out, then doing it all over again.

An expensive pet meandered about, soiling & relieving itself all over the lovely carpet, yet they were all too wasted to care.

So you had these young uppercrust elites passed out on the carpet, their faces not far from animal droppings.

How glamorous! (Not.)

Even stranger & more disturbing, she felt no shame about this. She thought it was funny.

Yet if I'd ever participated in something so disgusting, I'd be embarrassed to tell people.

Why would I want people to know that I'm perfectly fine with injecting illegal hard drugs into my veins and then lying passed out in what amounts to an animal's bathroom?

But these people are so out-of-touch & entrenched in their own elitism, they think that if they do it, then that alone confers legitimacy onto the behavior — for THEM, anyway. Like, the mere fact that THEY do it makes it okay.

Also, in Great Britain, you have young people with actual titles (Lord So-and-So or Lady So-and-So), and quite a few of them indulge in such crass drug-fueled behavior. But it's hidden more because of their spiffy connections. 

The "Poor" Entitled

​And back to America: You see that increased welfare (which allows recipients to buy bakery cakes, steak, shrimp, etc.) for people who manage to obtain expensive jewelry and cell phones, cable TV, plus whatever clothes are in style.

AND if they're the "right" color or ethnicity, universities lower their academic standards for them. (Meaning, they need not achieve the same scores as white or Far East Asian applicants), plus they get more generous scholarships allowing them to pay less or even nothing for their higher education.


Yet theft & violence run rampant in these same communities, while only a minority of them take advantage of the advancement-assistance offered them.

They've also mostly thrown marriage out the window, with hardly any babies being born to married couples and children hardly knowing their fathers, which keeps these mothers & children in the low-income bracket.

I honestly don't know if it's possible to achieve a better outcome by withdrawing benefits because the work ethic simply no longer exists and we see that many feel entitled to resort to violence & looting to get what they desire when feeling deprived.

But the situation was originally created by rewarding people who aren't working or who aren't living responsibly (like having children out of wedlock with no financial support). 

A friend who grew up on welfare (in a community where welfare was the norm) remembers the dirty looks she got from cashiers when she paid for her Twinkies with a welfare check.

Because she was in her early teens & didn't understand how the welfare system was funded, she was just like, "What? What's your problem?"


Only later did she realize that struggling people working hard for their own income really resent their taxes paying for Twinkies.
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Twinkies with a shelf life of 45 days!...By Evan-Amos - Own work, CC0, Link
I'm NOT saying there aren't genuinely poor people in America. There ARE.

​I'm saying that many Americans classified as "poor" davka live with a lot of material comfort & aren't motivated to better themselves or their lifestyle.

Accustomed to Less: Satisfaction Guaranteed!

​In contrast, you can talk to old-time Yerushalmis who remember when breakfast consisted of ONE piece of bread and ONE piece of cheese — and they felt satisfied!

Shabbos night meal considered of ONE piece of gefilte fish, ONE piece of chicken, ONE piece of kugel, some tomato-cucumber salad...and maybe that was it.

But even if you had more, it wasn't much more.

And they tell you they were satisfied!

My husband (who was born in Morocco and raised in Eretz Yisrael) remembers taking a tomato-margarine sandwich on white bread to school every day.

Everyone did that.

The white spreadable cheese so popular in Eretz Yisrael today was too expensive.

So was butter.

My husband can't remember why mayonnaise, hummus, or techina weren't options, but they weren't.

Just margarine.

He remembers gazing longingly as his teacher snacked on a large red apple — something sold only in "the stores of the rich."

(Yes, a large red apple was a luxury in Eretz Yisrael in the Seventies.)

He was only able to get hold of one himself when he was in his teens.

(It was a big disappointment; he said it didn't taste as amazing as it looked.)

And after all those margarine-tomato sandwiches, you should see how much he enjoys breakfast with white cheese and a cucumber-tomato salad.

When we first got married, I did not understand why he ate what I considered a somewhat pathetic Israeli breakfast while glowing with such pleasure.

​Little did I know...


If you'd grown up with only margarine, you too would enjoy gevinah levanah to the hilt (rather than viewing it as a limp, disappointing version of the luscious, rich American cream cheese — which is how I view Israeli white cheese because I grew up differently).

In his early childhood, my husband's family lacked a washing machine and a stove; they cooked on 2 primus stoves instead.

​(But they did bring their TV with them from Morocco because they thought TVs weren't available here.)

Primus (AKA paraffin) stoves were all the rage in Eretz Yisrael for a time, but I'd never heard of such a thing before.

​Here's a photo:
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John Fogarty / Public domain
I really cannot imagine, especially getting Shabbat ready...and especially with all those obligatory Moroccan salads and dips!

But my husband remembers those times as the best (except for the large-red-apple deprivation).

Be Grateful for Everything – including Boredom

With witty, engaging detail, Rav Miller goes through all the things we should be grateful for:
buttons, pockets, homes, clothing, police with warrants (in Slabodka, Lithuanian, police didn't need warrants to barge into your home), no war, and much more.

On page 12, Rav Miller puts vacation trips and "going out" into perspective:
So he sits in the car all day long, holding the steering wheel. He's tense.

​He can't rest and he's smelling the gasoline fumes of a thousand cars ahead of him.

Does it enter his mind that maybe he would have been better off sitting on the porch in front of his house? Or inside his dining room?

It's no longer in our mentality to take advantage of quiet or "boring" moments.

And just to be perfectly upfront, I used to take my children out every Sunday in America to a Jewish indoor play area, only a 15-minute drive from our apartment.

Being cooped up an entire day with 2 young active children in my third trimester of my third pregnancy was way too aggravating.

In the indoor play area, I could sit in comfortable air-conditioning without worrying my kids would run off or get lost (like outside in a park). We weren't far from decent restrooms. And it was fun for me to be involved in their play because I could participate or rest as needed.

And they have really good memories of it until today.

But what I think Rav Miller means here is the whole culture of "going out" and engaging in all sorts of activities on a regular basis, which builds up the need to continue doing so.

For example: bowling...
You know, there's nothing natural about wanting to go bowling.

I'm much older than you and still I've never desired to go bowling.

​Only that when a person is too lazy to find happiness in his own life, the way that Hashem intended, so he fans the flames of lust: 

“Give us meat!” [Referring to the demands in the Midbar.]

​“Give us a bowling alley!”

What is the Talmudic Obligation of a Wife regarding Cooking?

Rav Miller emphasizes how much we must focus on enjoying what we have.

On page 15, he describes the enjoyment of eating an egg.

Rav Miller's son reported that he never heard his father ask Rebbetzin Miller for a certain food or meal.

Whatever she gave him, he ate with appreciation.

On the other hand, I knew a secular man who worked hard in a very prestigious job, and when he came home for dinner, his nose went seriously out of joint if dinner wasn't SUPER hot when served to him.

Meaning, if it was hot, that wasn't good enough. It had to be SUPER hot...

...or else.

(Fortunately, he did teshuvah and became a fairly nice & supportive husband later. See? Sometimes, there's a happy ending.)

But it just goes to show you how entitled some people become.

Yet Torah Judaism opposes any such an attitude of entitlement.

In the Mishkan Shilo magazine for Parshat Mattot-Masei, Rav Reuven Elbaz writes that the tzaddik Rav Ben-Tzion Abba-Shaul taught that when Gemara Ketubot 54b obligates a woman to cook for her husband, it only means:​
...to take a potato and cook it in water.

Beyond that, the wife is not obligated.

Our sages did not obligate her to season the dish or to add any taste, to cut it into nice slices, or serve it in an attractive manner...all this is not the wife's obligation.

Ooh, what a misogynist, paternalistic religion!

​[sarc]

Needless to say, a wife should strive to do more for her husband than feed him boiled potatoes, but the point of Rav Ben-Tzion Abba-Shaul was to encourage profound appreciation & gratitude for any meal a wife serves that consists of anything more than an unsalted potato.

And if you combine the Sephardi talmid chacham's Talmudic interpretation with the Ashkenazi talmid chacham's exquisite descriptions of how good the simplest foods taste, then you have a recipe for enjoying any meal and enhancing shalom bayit.​

Don't Forget to Take Your Vitamins!

It's very worth reading the entire PDF because Rav Miller's descriptions bring these simple pleasures to vibrant life, and truly help with enjoying life more.

He calls this attitude "vitamins of happiness."

It's not easy in our times because we have so many temptations right before our eyes all the time, but the more we work on this, the happier we really are.
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All quotes & material courtesy of Toras Avigdor, a leading producer of happiness vitamins.

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2 Ways to Understand How Noach Spoke with the Dove, the Raven, and the Phoenix

20/7/2020

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In the post about the real history of the phoenix, we read about Noach's exchange with the long-living bird.

We know that Noach also conversed with the raven and the dove in the Ark.

In addition, other very special Sages throughout the ages (like King Shlomo & the Arizal) merited the ability to understand what birds say.

Yet we also know that birds can't think like we do. And speech is a uniquely human gift.

So how can we understand these references to conversations with birds?

2 Ways to Understand Birds

Speaking or listening to birds entails at least one of 2 options:

(1) Bird communication doesn't consist of actual language, according to the Yad Ramah (Rav Meir Abulafia). Instead, the bird makes certain signs that indicate its intentions.

Probably tweets, chirps, and physical movements comprise those signs. And Noach (among others) possessed the level of prophecy & wisdom necessary to interpret these signs. That's the explanation of the Yad Ramah.

(2) You don't speak to the actual bird, explains the Arizal. Instead, you converse with the bird's sar or upper mazal.

​These refer to an angelic force appointed over the bird. I suppose it's like when you visit a home with a pet. In order to fully understand the pet, you let its owner explain the pet's mannerisms & what these mannerisms convey even as you pet & speak to the pet.

​Needless to say, speaking to a bird's sar or upper mazal also demands a very high spiritual level of wisdom & merit.

Perhaps there are other explanations, but these are the two I came across.

​Hopefully, that sheds some light on the intriguing phenomenon of understanding the language of birds.
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Birds flying at sunset over the seashore of Eretz Yisrael — Photo by Adam Grabek
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Discover the Torah Truth of the Phoenix Bird Stripped from Its Mythology: What is the Real Story, Authentic Spiritual Meaning, and Jewish Symbolism of the Phoenix?

20/7/2020

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Toward the end of his life, the renowned sculptor Jacques Lipchitz started to embrace Torah & mitzvot, including putting on tefillin and keeping Shabbat.

He even donated his Italian villa to Chabad in Italy, where they use it for their invigorating summer camps.

His sudden death in 1973 prevented him from completing a massive abstract of a phoenix for Hadassah hospital.

Being a skilled sculptor & artist herself, his wife Berthe wished to complete her husband's project.

However, in an audience with the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Berthe expressed concern over the construction of what many considered a non-Jewish symbol in the holy city of Yerushalayim.

So the Rebbe showed her the mention of the phoenix in Eyov (Job) 29:18 and explained the midrashic description of the phoenix.

Reassured that the phoenix originated as a Jewish symbol, the sculpture was completed in 1978.

Many of us know of the phoenix as an imaginary bird associated with non-Jewish mythology & miraculous powers.

However, the phoenix is well-known among Torah Sages throughout history: Rashi, Gemara Sanhedrin, Malbim, Midrash Rabbah and its commentaries, the Maharal, the Chidah, Chassidus — they all discuss the phoenix, referring to it by its Hebrew name chol or its Aramaic name avarshinah.

Unfortunately, people took the story of the phoenix and minimized the spiritual meaning of the phoenix and its symbolism.

However, the true story of the phoenix is exquisite, both in its events & its powerful lessons. 

The Real Story of the Phoenix

The story of the phoenix opens in Gan Eden.

While we know that after eating from the Eitz HaDaat (Tree of Knowledge), Chava gave of its fruit to Adam, she also fed the rest of the animals from this same fruit.

Except the phoenix.

The phoenix refused to eat it.

​Refraining from eating the fruit of the Eitz HaDaat earned the phoenix eternal life, which renewed every 1000 years.
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Yet a hunter’s arrow could still shoot down the phoenix, or it could come to some other fatal accident.

How the Phoenix Merited Invincibility in Addition to Eternal Life

The phoenix made it onto the Ark with all the other animals — but how many of the phoenix? 

Commentators differ whether the phoenix is one bird or more. After all, Noach brought at least 2 of each kind, male & female, into the Ark.

So some Sages say this includes the phoenix too, meaning that the phoenix is a breed of bird that lives forever, renewing itself every 1000 years.

Yet others say no; the phoenix is a lone bird.

Either way, the Gemara records a telling incident on the Ark with the phoenix and Noach.

Caring for the animals involved a lot of stamina & ceaseless toil for Noach. 

​At one point, Noach noticed the phoenix bird lying in its compartment off to the side of the Ark.

Realizing he hadn't yet fed the phoenix (which probably caused the weakened state of the bird), Noach asked it, "Do you not want food?"

The phoenix answered him, "I saw you were toiling and so I decided I would not trouble you."

​Upon realizing the self-sacrificing thoughtfulness & humility of the phoenix, Noach blessed the bird, "And may it be Hashem's will that you will never die."

And with Noach's blessing, the phoenix no longer needed to fear a hunter's arrow.

So the merit of not eating the fruit of Eitz HaDaat combined with Noach's blessing now made the phoenix immune to any kind of death. 

How Does the Phoenix Renew Itself?

The exact details of the phoenix's renewal different from commentary to commentary, but the main idea remains the same.

For example, most say it renews itself every 1000 years, but the Tzemach Tzaddik quoting the Chidah says it renews itself every 315 years.

Either way, it renews itself after a very long time, but continuously renews itself to live forever.

Some say as it approaches the end of its cycle, a fire emerges from the phoenix's nest, burning the phoenix down to the size of an egg, then it grows limbs, developing into a full-grown bird and continues to live like that until the end of its next cycle.

Others say that the phoenix's body collapses upon itself and its wings shrivel until it shrivels down to the size of an egg, and then its renewal process begins. (This process sounds like it happens without fire, but I'm not sure.)

The Tzemach Tzaddik as quoted by the Chidah goes into further detail:

In this scenario, the phoenix renews itself every 315 years.

The phoenix feels its strength ebbing as it reaches the old age phase of its cycle.

So it builds a nest of parched aromatic bark (atzei besamim).

After the phoenix completes this special nest, it enters inside, faces the Sun, and starts beating its wings to build heat & friction until it catches on fire with its aromatic nest.

Interestingly, the phoenix feels no fear even as it burns because it senses this is the way for it to experience rebirth.

Anyway, it continues in this fashion until it disintegrates into a heap of ashes.

9 days later, a tiny worm emerges from the ashes and grows until it becomes a full-fledged adult phoenix by the end of 30 days.

At that point, it's youthful & free again, and it flies away.

The Real Meaning & Symbolism of the Phoenix

The genuine beauty of the story of the phoenix gets lost among the cultural mythologies, which fixate on the phoenix's eternal life & recurring renewal of youth — as if physical renewal is all that matters.

Yet the true story of the phoenix — the authentic Jewish narrative — reveals much deeper and more pertinent lessons.

The story of the phoenix proves that nice guys really do finish first.

And that the real gibbur, a person of true might, is the one who conquers his inclination (Pirkei Avot 4:1).

And that yes, the humble really do inherit the earth (Tehillim 37:11).

(I know that scientists always focus on the repulsive cockroach as the hardy survivor of nuclear war, but it's really the beautiful humble phoenix who can survive anything.)

The story of the phoenix starts out in Gan Eden as an ode to the power of staying within your own dalet amot, of not seeking to be part of the elite and not giving into peer pressure.

You really don't need to do what everyone else is doing, even if it's eating from something as cool as the Eitz HaDaat.

It's about thinking for yourself.

And later, on Noach's Ark, it's about bitul atzmi (self-nullification).

It's about saying that my suffering doesn't take precedence over another's suffering — especially when I owe that person my life.

It's knowing with complete emunah & bitachon that Hashem takes care of everything.

Hashem promised the phoenix eternal life, but it originally meant the phoenix won't die of old age; it can renew itself every time death approaches.

But it could get shot down by an arrow. And it could starve to death.

Yet in its great humility and bitul atzmi, the starving phoenix refused to bother Noach simply because it saw that Noach was already overwhelmed.

And by suffering in silence off to the side of a busy zoo during one of the most devastating eras of human history — simply out of consideration for another person — the phoenix earned invincibility in addition to eternal life.

​And now we understand what Iyov really meant when he said (29:18):  
 וָאֹמַר, עִם-קִנִּי אֶגְוָע; וְכַחוֹל, אַרְבֶּה יָמִים

Va'omar im kani egva v'chachol arbeh yamim.

And I said I will perish with my nest, and I will increase days like the phoenix.

Desiring to be like the phoenix and to merit what the phoenix merited — these are very good attributes to set as your goals.

Related posts:

For the story of Berthe Lipchitz & the Lubavitcher Rebbe, please see:
The Phoenix

For an intriguing class on the phoenix, please see:
​A Phoenix in the Ark

To see a beautiful painting of the phoenix in Gan Eden, please see:

Phoenix in the Garden of Eden

For a later post explaining the talking to animals that occurs in Torah, please see:
2 Ways to Understand How Noach Spoke with the Dove, the Raven, and the Phoenix

Additional fun fact: I don't think we know how the phoenix actually looked. Despite the flame-like coloring often portrayed in artistic representations, the only physical description I found of it lay in Otzar Midrashim: "It is fat."


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