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God Helps: The Prequel

27/5/2018

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In the previous post, God Helps: A True Story, you read about how my husband made his way to a yeshivah that at first glance, seemed like he and it wouldn't be a good fit, yet got accepted when the Rosh Yeshivah passed by at just the right moment and asked him a pointed question that told the Rosh Yeshivah all he needed to know.

But there's a prequel.

Much earlier, my husband checked out other yeshivahs, yeshivahs more in line with what he was familiar and whose students dressed like him.

A Tale of Two Yeshivahs

​One yeshivah was located far out in the middle of several Yishmaelite communities, and the bus my husband rode was slammed by embittered Yishmaelim with a barrage of large rocks.

Though my husband liked the yeshivah, he found the ride there and back too terrifying to endure again.

He also went to a very serious and highly regarded dati-leumi yeshivah. But they politely rejected him on the basis that he learned at a dati-mamlachti [government-religious] high school, and not a much more religious yeshivah high school.

To this day, my husband has a dati-leumi cousin who mourns this rejection.

"If only they'd accepted you then, you'd still be dati-leumi today!" she once lamented. "If only they'd known how committed you were to learning Torah and how much you'd advance in learning! But no...instead, the chareidim got you."

And then she started into a soliloquy about how the dati-leumi yeshivahs need to be more accepting of people who obviously have a thirst for Torah learning, even if the potential students don't come from just the "right" background.

"I mean, to reject you—you!—JUST because you learned in a dati-mamlachti school— it's not like you weren't religious at all! For crying out loud...look at how much you've accomplished in learning—what a missed opportunity for them!"

She was upset that charedim don't generally serve in the IDF, and feels like if only the dati-leumi yeshivah had been more accepting, then my husband wouldn't have gone "off the derech" to the charedi world.

And she's right!

(We're extremely fond of her, by the way. And she's very fond of us too! She bubbles with tremendous simchat chayim—joyous lifeforce—and is always very exuberant and warm toward both of us and our children. It's just that the whole IDF draft issue concerning charedim really bothers her.)

Hashem Uplifts the Downtrodden

Anyway, if the Rosh Yeshivah of that highly regarded dati-leumi yeshivah (which really is an exceptionally fine yeshivah and produces exceptionally fine young men) had passed by my husband at that exact moment and thought to deal with my husband in a way that would tell him all he needed to know about my husband (as happened with the Litvish charedi yeshivah he eventually attended), then my husband would've joined the ranks of that highly regarded dati-leumi yeshivah.

But what with being rejected from learning Torah for something he couldn't help or being attacked by Yishmaelites for exiling himself (or trying to anyway) to a place of Torah, my husband was in desperate straits by the time he landed at that Litvish charedi yeshivah.

And the initial rejection by the Litvish charedi yeshivah (as described in the previous post) crushed him as the final blow in his effort to do something he had thought Hashem wanted and something that Judaism considers as worth everything.

"I was just this little innocent Moroccan boy," my husband still relates with great feeling, "who didn't know anything about background or political or identity differences with regard to yeshivahs, but just wanted to learn Torah. And I couldn't understand why this was happening to me. I should've known that dark beige pants or sneakers meant anything to anyone? I wore a kippah, I wore tzitzit, and I wanted to learn Torah. What did anything else matter? I didn't understand all the nuances back then. I just felt rejected by everyone."

So he was in a very low place by the time the Rosh Yeshivah appeared on the steps.

Yet it was all a way of Hashem guiding him—literally taking my husband's hand and pulling him away from this place and away from that place—until my husband finally arrived at the place Hashem wanted him to be.

And that's the whole story. (I think...)
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stella
30/5/2018 19:50:58

Shalom Myrtle,
You write a lot of interesting things and thanks. Happy the above story worked out well in the end. B'H.

I write to ask how you think plants, all plants, including grass and what we term as 'weeds', (which i view as beautiful, like dandelions etc;) do they have : 'feelings'. as like feeling pain when mowed down or uprooted?
Just wondering.

I knew a friend once long ago, who told me 'al'l veggies and other plants have feelings like humans do. And that one should apologize to them when we pluck them, and tell them we are sorry for doing it but... then whisper to them the reason.

This got me thinking a bit... and when in the kitchen and i was about to cut an onion or peel a potato or other vegees, i would whisper an apology before peeling or chopping them up.
I actually would say: Please potato forgive me for causing you pain, but i need to cook you for dinner'.
You might think me crazy... but really i did do that..

Did this for quite sometime... stopped that someitme ago now..

But really, we know that plants do have life as they grow... and i rather see the flowers growing than plucking them up to decorate or send as a gift... (my own feelings)...
Could you when you have time to spare, write about how Torah views these plants :

Thanks and Gd bless you and yours.
sc

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Myrtle Rising
30/5/2018 20:58:06

Hi, Stella,

Unfortunately, I don't know much about this topic.

The little I do know says that all vegetation possesses a type of low-level lifeforce and that even a single blade of grass has its own God-appointed angel motivating it to grow and develop as it needs.

Also, human souls can reincarnate as vegetation or fruit, and a proper blessing before eating a vegetable or fruit (or any food) can elevate any soul stuck inside to its next rectification.

We're not supposed to destroy flora and fauna for no reason and there are some serious laws against uprooting or destroying fruit trees in Eretz Yisrael.

But as far as I know, these things don't have feelings or cognition anything like that of a human being.

If I find out more, I'll hopefully remember to add it.

Hope that helps some!

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