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Rav Avigdor Miller on Parshat Masei: Recalling All the Awful Things that DIDN'T Happen

2/8/2019

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In Parshas Masei – Remembering the Journeys, Rav Avigdor Miller notes that the list of journeys written there hint at our need to remember our own journeys in life and most of all, Hashem's Great Kindnesses that He showered on us during those journeys (whether we appreciated them or not; whether we even noticed the Kindnesses or not - we can notice & appreciate them now).

Rav Miller gleans this interpretation from Rabbeinu Yonah.

You can even write your journeys down.

​Or you can go over them in your head, which could make a nice Shabbat activity.

And from this aspect of the parsha, we learn to look at our own journeys and say, "Things worked out like so — but really, it could have been much worse. MUCH worse."

Just as someone somewhere should've been stung by a scorpion while traipsing through the Midbar — but it never happened, baruch Hashem! — we also have aspects of our life journeys in which the worst should have happened...but didn't.

I can definitely think of times in my life where, according to the natural & most expected way of the world, very bad things should have happened:
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  • Maybe I should've died...but didn't, baruch Hashem.
 
  • Maybe I should've been scarred for life...but wasn't, baruch Hashem.
 
  • Maybe I should've remained a fully assimilated numskull Leftist...but didn't, baruch Hashem.
 
  • Maybe I was about to innocently commit a particularly severe sin...but didn't.

Why? Because Hashem tweaked things so that the natural, expected outcome never came to full fruition — or never happened at all.

Just a little tweak in the journey was all I needed to avoid disaster.

(Okay, and not always just a little tweak. Let's be honest: Sometimes, I needed a great massive shove to catapult me out of harm's way. But the point is, the really bad thing that should have happened...didn't.)

Likewise, in the Midbar, people were not stung by scorpions nor did they suffer epidemics. (Plagues of Punishment, yes. Smallpox or measles? No.)

No dehydration or heatstroke.

Yishtabach Shemo! 

Thanking Hashem for What DIDN'T Happen

​Rav Miller gleans from David Hamelech that you even need to go back to your first months of conception when you do this!

No joke.

My great-grandmother looked for an abortionist, but he was out of town. By the time, the abortionist came back, it was too late.

And Grandpa was born, baruch Hashem.

(For more on the benefit of Grandpa's existence, please see: The Abortion Stories You Never Hear.)

Rav Miller goes through conception, babyhood, childhood, and more.

He recalls the time in his own childhood when he found a bullet, stuck it into some wood, pounded its back with a hammer...and it exploded in his face. There was lots of blood. Rav Miller says he should've lost an eye, but he didn't. Baruch Hashem!

​We all have stories like that. (In fact, it definitely sounds like something my own kids would do.)

Anyway, Rav Miller goes through the many things that COULD happen and DO happen to some people, but DIDN'T happen to him. (Nor to you or me. That's right. If you're reading this, then that's a sure sign you're still alive and the examples he gave did NOT happen to you...baruch Hashem!!!)​

"Boring days are a blessing!"

- Rav Avigdor Miller


Fabulous Failures

You think you just spent your whole life working? 

Baruch Hashem! You were able to work.

What about failures?

Rav Miller mentions 4 big failures he endured, all of which turned out to be the best thing that could have happened to him, only he didn't perceive it that way at the time. 

And haven't we all had "fabulous" failures like that?

Thanks for the Nervous Breakdown!

Another man ("an am ha'aretz gamur") suffered a nervous breakdown.

​While hospitalized, someone handed him a copy of Rejoice, O Youth! and it changed his life. 

Now he's a talmid chacham with a big beard and a big family in Yerushalayim —​ all thanks to a nervous breakdown.​

Thanks for the Targeted Bombing!

Another man was so enslaved by his work, he often couldn't make it to Shacharis.

Then he unknowingly "stole" a customer from the Mafia, so the Mafia bombed his store.

Rav Miller gave the terrorized man helpful advice to preserve his life, and the man ended up at a new job, which enabled him to live a MUCH better frum life — meaning, a better & vastly improved life overall.

"It’s not what I say – that’s what the Chovos Halevavos says: that remembering all of the chasdei Hashem is fundamental for anyone who wants to be an eved Hashem."

​-Rav Avigdor Miller


The One-Minute Appreciator

Rav Miller recommends spending at least one minute mulling over the awful (or even just mildly irritating) things that should have happened, but didn't.

He says you can even do this while walking down the street.​

Who is the True Oved Hashem?

Rav Miller makes the excellent point that the shaking, serious Yid isn't necessarily the big pious oved Hashem (true servant of Hashem).

It could easily be the cheerful-looking guy who walks happily down the street because he's remembering the Kindnesses of Hashem. 

Ultimately, the point of all this is to feel such gratitude to Hashem, you serve him from that place of joyous gratitude.

​This is a true oved Hashem.

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Rachel in NY
1/8/2019 21:35:04

A couple of years back, the nine-year-old son of a friend and neighbor of mine somehow fell off a 50-foot cliff. He was in a coma for a couple of weeks and suffered a broken leg, but he is Baruch Hashem 100% recovered and you would never know anything happened. The entire community was davening for him and it was a big nes that he's ok. But that's only the nes we knew happened! How many kids ALMOST fell off a cliff but didn't, and we never knew it was possible to fall off the cliff or we didn't even know there was a cliff? So many things are prevented from happening and we never even know! It's only when something happens that you realize what could happen, and it's only when something happens and it ends well that you realize what Hashem has done for you.

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Myrtle Rising
2/8/2019 00:24:19

FIFTY feet??!! Oh. My. Gosh. It's an open miracle, not only that he survived, but that he recovered 100%.

It also shows the power of your community's tefillah. How else could he have completely recovered ?

Thanks so much for sharing that story, and also the following points you make.

Your comment gives a lot of chizuk. Thanks again, Rachel in NY.

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Mr. Cohen link
4/8/2019 06:16:26

from JNS dot org:

“Under the Trump administration, the United States argued that UNRWA [United Nations Relief and Works Agency for Palestine Refugees] has perpetuated, rather than helped, end the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, by extending refugee status to the children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren of those who fled Israel during the establishment
of the Jewish state in 1948.”

SOURCE:
UNRWA Leaders Accused of Sexual Misconduct, Ethics Violations
www.jns.org/unrwa-leaders-accused-of-sexual-misconduct-ethics-violations/

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Mr. Cohen link
4/8/2019 06:17:24

Tuvia Tenenbom [a secular Israeli author] said:

“Outside of the Orthodox community, where Jews are proud to be Jews, and are observing Jewish Law...

In state-after-state, temple-after-temple, what I saw and what I witnessed was a nightmare:

You see [non-Orthodox] Rabbis, so-called Rabbis, leaders, supposedly leaders, standing at a podium, and all they can tell to their listeners, is that Israel is an apartheid state, and that Judaism is racist.

That is what they preach, over and over and over and over again...”

SOURCE:
Shocking Tuvia Tenenbom Interview Tells Truth about Reform & Conservative Jews, a YouTube video/published on 2017 July 17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mkT19Gyf5DM

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