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Rav Avigdor Miller on Parshat Shelach: Don't Wander into Battle Armed with Only Bagels & Lox

3/6/2021

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In Rav Avigdor Miller's dvar Torah for Parshas Shelach 4 – Weapons of the Torah, Rav Miller reminds us of a fundamental truth stated in Mesilat Yesharim: 

The true good that a person can achieve in This World occurs when a person is joined to Hashem.

Rav Miller continues to explain on page 3:
...to remain joined always in his thoughts to Hakodosh Boruch Hu.

It means that whatever you’re accomplishing in life, your true success will be measured by how much you train yourself to think about Hakodosh Boruch Hu.

At the same time, Rav Miller acknowledges how challenging this is to carry out practically.

The reason is: This is a war.

"This is the most difficult of all battles," Rav Miller declares.

Bagel & Lox, Plus Donations to UJA, Will Lose the Battle Every Time. It's Like Arming a Soldier with Cheetos Instead of Bullets.

The tests & trials in This World keep coming at us like whizzing bullets from all sides.

It's a STRONG battle, states Rav Miller in the name of Mesilat Yesharim.

Fortunately, Hashem equipped us with the best weapons: mitzvot.

This is why it can never be enough to merely feel like a good Jew "at heart" or, as the Mendelsohn-influenced Jews of pre-WWII Germany believed "a German on the street & a Jew at home."

As Rav Miller explains:
...it's a pity on them because without mitzvos they are completely lost.

They are like soldiers who go out to battle without any weapons.

The ‘I am a Jew in my heart' Jew who expresses his Judaism by eating knishes or giving money to the UJA is a rachmanus – he has no chance on the battlefield.

Nobody is capable of fighting off the enemy with bagels and lox!

So true!

And that's how the Movement for Conservative (which is actually radically liberal) "Judaism" caused so much idealistic & smiley destruction.

The Reform did the same.

The difference is that many Jews in the Movement for Conservative (which is actually radically liberal) "Judaism" actually felt devoted to Judaism (whatever they understand it to be). 

​Reform was too compromised (and often too foreign) for them.

So many of them, particularly the older generation of men, display genuine enthusiasm for Judaism, especially for their favorite customs & observances.

Yet at the same time, so many of them intermarried!

And their children (of those who are actually Jewish, anyway) do even less & intermarry even more.

As the wife of one cantor in this movement told me, "None of the boys in our congregation married a Jewish girl. It's like the boys don't even WANT to marry a Jewish girl!" She said they davka seek to marry a non-Jewish wife.

And the "rabbis" of this movement created this mess by granting fake conversions.

Sure, they sincerely believed their conversions to be kosher.

But even the most superficial glance at the actual laws discussing conversion to Judaism prove these conversions could never be valid.

Quite a few (even the vast majority, perhaps) Jews in the previous generation would never have married their non-Jewish partner had not their "rabbis" created the opening to do so.

In fact, had not this treif opening existed, many would not have even bothered dating (or dating seriously) a non-Jew in the first place. 

This why the past couple of generations created the phenomenon of a Jew dating a non-Jewish girl in the hope that she'll "convert" for him to marry.

They do this solely because the option of insincere "conversion" exists. (And that's only the ones who actually care. Many do not.)

It also needs to be said that some Orthodox rabbis leading modern & somewhat assimilated communities commit this same travesty. And just as described above with the Movement for Conservative (which is actually radically liberal) "Judaism," their young male congregants know they can bring home a non-Jewish girl for conversion for marriage (which is not valid according to halacha).

This has led to the widespread destruction of American Jewry outside the devotedly Orthodox communities.

This enabled a tsunami of intermarriage & assimilation on the heels of the Holocaust.

It also led to the odd phenomenon of someone with a Jewish-looking face & a name like "David Sorotzkin"—who enjoys the yearly Seder at Bubby's house—revealed as not Jewish at all. (And Bubby may not be Jewish either, although she may think she is because she "converted" to marry Zeidy.)

One person experienced with kiruv on campus said that in some areas nowadays, the Jewish-looking girl named Sarah Goldberg is actually an indication that she is NOT Jewish!

For the past couple of decades, Jewish Biblical names like Sarah, Leah, Abigail, Naomi, David, Jonathan, Joshua, Jacob, etc., appear within the 100 most popular names in America—among the general non-Jewish population. Combined with the Jewish surname of an intermarried father, the child appears Jewish, but is actually 100% gentile. 

This all occurs when we drop our weapons in the midst of battle. (Or when we equip ourselves with only bagels & lox.)

One needs to keep Hashem in mind and commit oneself to the mitzvot.

Both the above-mentioned "rabbis" and their hapless congregants would never have committed the travesty of unacceptable conversions & intermarriage had they been truly devoted to mitzvot and kept Hashem in mind.

What Does It Mean to be Faithful to Hashem's Testimonies?

Rav Miller notes that our best mitzvah weapons come under the category of eidut—testimony.

David Hamelech constantly mentions this category throughout Tehillim, emphasizing the importance of being faithful to Hashem's eidut (or eiduyot in the plural form).

On pages 7-8, Rav Miller offers wonderful suggestions for making your mezuzah your prized weapon against the yetzer hara.

On pages 8-9, Rav Miller tells you how you can effectively "weaponize" the following:
  • Shabbat
  • Tefillin
  • Sukkot
  • Pesach
  • the hidden Torah

On pages 9-10, Rav Miller explains how a destructive idea crept in—the idea of embracing the meaning of the mitzvah while discarding the actual mitzvah (being Jewish "in your heart" without properly keeping the actual mitzvah; focusing only on the spirit of the law—however you understand it—while disregarding the letter of the law).

On pages 12-14, Rav Miller delves into the meaning of tzitzit, how we can utilize them for personal greatness—including how women can too.

​On pages 10-11, Rav Miller makes this interesting observation to help us understand what we're missing out of habit:
I was walking on King's Highway once and they were doing construction work.

As I passed by, the Italian foreman pointed to my tzitzis and asked, “What's that for?”

So I said, “It’s to remind us,” and I pointed to the sky.

“Oooh,” he said. He understood that. 

An Italian foreman understands that we're wearing tzitzis to remind us of the One in the sky.

It’s a pity that what the gentile understands is ignored by us.

You know, if I were talking to a group of college boys and girls, way out let's say in Tulsa, Oklahoma and they would be hearing about tzitzis for the first time, I'd take out tzitzis and show it to them and they'd be amazed.

It would be an interesting thing to them – they never saw it before – and it would have an effect on them.

But when you talk to people who are all wearing tzitzis it's very difficult for them to learn what it really means because they think they know all about it – they know in the wrong way; they know it mitzvas anashim melumadah, as habit, but they think they know it all already.

That's the reality. It's only natural.

And that's the reality we need to fight.

Hashem imbued the Jew with the ability to rise above nature—including his or her own nature.

It's not easy at all.

​But just the act of TRYING (even if you don't succeed!) is considered tremendous in Shamayim.

A Weaponized Jew Takes a Lickin' & Keeps on Tickin'

At the same time, Rav Miller acknowledges that nobody comes out of battle without a scratch.

Especially in such a long, strong battle, a soldier must expect to get hit every once in a while.

But he mustn't say, "Oh, I got hit! Well, that's it. I guess I'll just lay down and die now."

No!

​We need to get up and keep fighting the good fight!

​And we need to really know that it really is a GOOD fight.

It's what we're here to accomplish.
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Our truly valiant soldiers of war
Credit for all quotes & material goes to one of our best weapons in this harsh battle: Toras Avigdor.


4 Comments
Hava
3/6/2021 17:26:13

"...but they think they know it all already." - R' Avigdor Miller

I think most Jews, if not all, think that whatever they grew up with is the real Judaism, unless they have been exposed to a deeper lifestyle somehow. I can't explain the phenomenon, but I have observed it all my life. It's not just the religious Jews. Even those who never went to synagogue, or didn't go all that often, or even those who were driven on Shabbat.

Even I thought I knew it all too. But no! Not so at all (you know that by now I don't think like that at all.).

I think that's the problem, underneath everything. We all think we know it all; and if we never get past that point we fight vociferously for our POV.

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Myrtle Rising
3/6/2021 18:13:44

Excellent points here, Hava. Thank you so much.

Like you, I've also always seen it (but was blind to it until becoming frum).

For example, one male family member insisted that Orthodox boys do not know how to lein (read from the Torah) because when he was in a very ignorant & lacking-resources Orthodox environment in New York in the Forties & Fifties, the boys from what he considered Orthodox families did not know how to lein.

As we know, there was barely any real solid Jewish education available in America's 40s & 50s like there is now. So that's why they didn't know.

I found it so bizarre that well into the 1990s, he maintained this position, despite copious evidence to the contrary. You could not convince him otherwise. When he did see teenage boys lein (and do so quite well!), he almost seemed not to see them or maybe considered them exceptions.

And what you said about fighting vociferously?

Yeah, if you tried to gently offer examples to show him that things have changed—not denying his experience, but merely showing him that things have changed—he became furious!

It was so irrational in this otherwise likeable, intelligent person, I found it unnerving. (And frustrating.)

(With regard to your 2nd paragraph: Yes, it's so clear that you definitely do not think like that at all!)

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IY
4/6/2021 13:45:00

Thank you MR and Hava. The post is spot on, and, yes, very painful. Reading this, it feels like a miracle each time a Jew has become a BT. As you both describe, I also know many Jews who are satisfied with the bagels and lox. May Hashem pokeach ivrim, and patach livneihem ( not sure the grammar is correct there)... they don't know what they're missing: Pure joy and delight in the ways of Torah! Good Shabbas!

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Myrtle Rising
4/6/2021 16:43:17

Good Shabbos, IY! Thanks very much for your comment.

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