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The Kli Yakar on Parshat Vayera: Why Does Avraham Avinu's Old Age Matter to Either Sara Imeinu or Avraham Avinu? Why Did Hashem Need to Change Sara Imeinu's Wording?

14/11/2019

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In Parshat Vayera, we encounter the famous incident of Sara Imeinu's laughter & words of wonder, followed by Hashem's sensitive re-wording when repeating the incident to Avraham Avinu.

In Beresheit 18:12, Sara laughs within herself & wonders at the idea of regaining a youthful biology.

Yet it happened. 


However, it only happened to her. As Sara Imeinu noted: "...my husband is old."

And when Hashem repeated the scenario to Avraham Avinu, Hashem omitted Sara's reference to Avraham Avinu's advanced age.


In light of this, certain questions naturally come to mind. ​

Fortunately for us, the Kli Yakar not only thought of the obvious questions, he also came up with some answers.

At Least 2 Questions Come to Mind...

Question #1: Why does Avraham Avinu's age matter?

As the Kli Yakar points out: "...ki ein hadavar nimna ki zaken harbeh yachol l'holid – for it is not an impossible thing for a very old man to be able to beget [a child]."

Question #2: Why did Hashem change Sara's words?

Is Avraham self-conscious about his age?

No, that doesn't make sense in the context of everything we know about Avraham Avinu.

​And, as the Kli Yakar notes, "Lamah yerah b'einei Avraham al sheh amra ha'emet? – Why would it seem bad in Avraham's eyes that she said the truth?"

After all, Avraham Avinu really was old!

Why would he get offended? He was the furthest thing from a vain person. In addition, he was a TREMENDOUS tzaddik! This means he was also profoundly emes-oriented.

Even more, Avraham Avinu deeply loved Sara Imeinu and she was his full & equal partner in everything he did.

Talk about 2 halves of 1 soul.

He's not going to see Sara Imeinu in a negative light. No way.

And so...?

​The answer lies in Sara Imeinu's understanding of spiritual physics.

What Did Avraham Avinu's Old Age Mean to Sara Imeinu?

​As is clear from the text and commentaries, Sara Imeinu was both profoundly pious & profoundly intelligent. Rashi notes that even her level of prophecy superseded that of her husband.

Sara Imeinu understood the great miracles that occurred over the long term when Avraham Avinu waged war against the Edomite kings. 

She also realized that great miracles use up great merits.

In fact, Avraham Avinu himself was concerned about this very issue, as explained by Rashi in Beresheit 15:1.


So Sara Imeinu saw that Hashem rejuvenated her body with healthy youth.

But Hashem hadn't done so for her husband.

To her, this meant that the conquest had used up his merits and so he lacked the merits necessary to produce a child.

Furthermore, realizing that according to the natural order of things, she & Avraham Avinu were at the end of their life together, she laughed at what she considered an incomplete promise.

What is the point of she & Avraham having a child if they could not live to raise him, especially since out of the entire world at that time, only Sara & Avraham possessed the ability to raise a Yitzchak Avinu?

In her great humility, it didn't occur to Sara that she was worth the extra miracle. And she honestly thought that her husband's merits were used up - an assumption validated by Avraham's apparent lack of renewed youth & vigor.

So because she ascribed her humble disbelief to a lack of merit on Avraham's part (not because he lacked merits, but because both he & she felt certain he'd used them up in a truly miraculous conquest), Hashem changed the wording.

And to all of it, Hashem answered (Targum): "Is anything too hidden and separated and concealed from Me to prevent Me from doing My Will?"

Here's All the Above in a Nutshell:

Summary of main points:
  • Sara emphasized Avraham's old age as physical confirmation to the spiritual assumption that his merits had indeed been used up by the ongoing miraculous conquest of the Edomite kings.
 
  • But despite the seemingly confirmatory physical evidence of the logical calculation of spiritual physics, Avraham Avinu's merits had NOT been used up by the conquest.
 
  • Hashem refused to even hint to Avraham Avinu that his wife thought his merits were used up.
 
  • Anyway, Hashem can do ANYTHING.
 
  • And that is why Hashem changed Sara's wording.

​Both Sara Imeinu & Avraham Avinu possessed enough to merits to not only have the child they yearned for, but also to raise him.
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Baruch
15/11/2019 00:46:48

In reality, the whole answer is that H' can do ANYTHING and if He wants he can make someone young, wealthy, etc., etc. Am thinking of Rabbi Chaninah Ben Dosa to whom miracles were a natural thing. The people knew that if a miracle was needed, they came to him to ask for rain, etc., but they asked him 'isn't it true, one shouldn't ask for miracles:, he answered them that he didn't think of them as miracles because everything is a miracle but it depends on the depth of emunah and bitachon one has in H', so when they needed rain, he would pray for it and it would rain. The time will come when the supernatural will be natural. May Moshiach come soon!.

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Myrtle Rising
15/11/2019 10:12:37

Amen!

Thank you for this beautiful message.

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